This thread really isn't any of my business, and I have been following it as another adventure in progress, different than most, but still an adventure.
I have to say I think a lot of you should step back for a second and take a few deep breaths. This young man didn't ask for help from anyone. He posted up about something he is trying to do in his life and was sharing it with the forum. As his circumstance became more difficult, many, many people offered unsolicited help. Advice, offers of lodging, labor, cash, food, all of theses things were offered up but NOT asked for. He has, however, shown considerable gratitude and appreciation for people's support. I doesn't seem very fair to me that after pages and pages of unsolicited offers of support, when he finally does ASK for help, he is criticized for it.
A gift is just that, a gift. It is not conditional. It does not give you the right to pass judgment. I don't recall many "What do you think I should do?" posts by the OP. I don't recall him asking for validation of his quest. This is his journey. Whether or not he achieves what he set out for is HIS business. I believe that we should be grateful that it is being shared with us. One of the things that I have found appealing about this site is the accepting, non-judgmental atmosphere. Not everyone has the same resources or ambitions. A day trip to the beach with the family is just as welcome as a safari through deepest Africa here on expo. THAT'S pretty cool if you ask me.
Good luck with your journey mate. I hope you find what you're looking for and thanks for sharing.