Justincredible
Adventurer
I have a 2012 2 door automatic Rubicon that I bought used with a 2.5" Teraflex lift and 35" Nitto Trail Grapplers. It has 4:10 gears and the 3.6 liter which has plenty of power with this set up (of course I also have the rubicon transfer case which is geared much lower). The shift points were off when I purchased it and then I got a Super Chips Flash Paq which adjusted the shift points and corrected the speed odometer. I am pretty sure that with 33" tires you cold probably get away with 3.73 gears with the 3.6 liter engine especially if your Jeep is a daily driver.
As far as upgrading gears a economical way to do it would be to pick up someone's stock 3.73 or 4.10 gears when they upgrade. The stock 3.73 gears that come with the towing package also have a limited slip in the rear differential.
My '12 on 33" tires is downright spritely to me with 3.73 gears (also no rear LSD). Especially when compared to my old '02 Wrangler with the 4.0 or my '02 Xterra.